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9/25/2011 9:15:54 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
prettyboyv
Howard Beach, NY
29, joined Jun. 2011


why do women that are older have a problem dating younger guys ?!? , I'm 24 I was talkin to a woman that was 26 , we couldn't take our relationship any further because she felt I was too young "/ ..




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9/25/2011 9:16:53 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
linezha
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,293)
Winnie, TX
31, joined Sep. 2011


It's called preference and comfort.

Some women don't mind younger men.

9/25/2011 9:20:08 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
simply_tootsie
Over 1,000 Posts (1,256)
Tarzana, CA
28, joined Sep. 2011




9/25/2011 9:23:08 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

airyerin
Over 1,000 Posts (1,298)
North Pole, AK
29, joined Jan. 2011


I like them older...

9/25/2011 9:23:23 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

tonic451
Over 2,000 Posts (3,139)
Saint Marys, GA
33, joined Aug. 2011


lmao They don't. If they feel that you're mature, they'll date ya but if you're a typical guy for that age then probably not. I was 18 when I dated a 30 year old. That was a lot of fun.

9/25/2011 9:24:22 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
millyx22
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,252)
Suffolk, VA
27, joined Aug. 2011


wait you're 24 and the girl is 26. Just a 2 year difference and she's telling you you're too young WTF??!!! That girl just wasn't into you and used age as a excuse to move on to the next guy.

9/25/2011 9:25:16 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
flagirl9027
Altamonte Springs, FL
36, joined Jun. 2011


I don't have a problem with it.

9/25/2011 9:25:30 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
kokopelligal
Mesa, AZ
48, joined Aug. 2008


I have no problem dating younger guys. I just wouldn't want to marry one.

9/25/2011 9:26:30 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
flagirl9027
Altamonte Springs, FL
36, joined Jun. 2011


Quote from millyx22:
wait you're 24 and the girl is 26. Just a 2 year difference and she's telling you you're too young WTF??!!! That girl just wasn't into you and used age as a excuse to move on to the next guy.


I agree

9/25/2011 9:31:56 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
peteycal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,506)
Santa Rosa, CA
31, joined Sep. 2011


Either this girl has some really bad OCD and can't date a guy 2 years younger, or the most likely case is it was just an excuse to get rid of you.

9/25/2011 9:58:08 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
curvyprof
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,605)
Lorain, OH
49, joined Sep. 2011


There are plenty women who prefer younger. I rarely ever go out with guys my age.

9/25/2011 10:00:45 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
princess4906
Twentynine Palms, CA
34, joined Sep. 2011


I love younger guys!

9/25/2011 10:10:07 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (47,392)
Saint Paul, MN
64, joined Oct. 2009


Women generally like older men, (But not as old as I am) more established in their careers, more mature, making better money and better able to face the responsibilities that may come with a sexual relationship. Younger guys are generally viewed as wanting sex, beer, partying, more sex, more babes, always more beer etc etc. A bit older guy is viewed as having grown out of that stage.

I imagine this 26 is pretty hot, huh?

9/25/2011 10:14:30 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
iamalwaysjustme
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,074)
Kansas City, MO
56, joined Apr. 2009


I like five year younger, five year older range

9/25/2011 10:28:29 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
kellimarquez78
Barstow, CA
38, joined Sep. 2011


she is full of crap 2 yrs younger is nothing more than 5 yrs younger then i can see a problem

9/25/2011 10:32:28 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
ericjasonp
Over 1,000 Posts (1,598)
Chalfont, PA
51, joined Feb. 2011


I think they are smart enough to know that a 24 yo is just looking to get laid.

9/25/2011 11:15:56 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
kbilliot22
Raceland, LA
37, joined Jul. 2010


I am 32 and have never been with a guy younger than me. my ex husband is 42. I really can't say it's because of maturity b/c older guys act just like babies.....maybe i should try a younger guy haha

9/25/2011 11:36:26 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
earlhodges84
Ellabell, GA
32, joined Sep. 2011


i was 21 and was with a 43 year old to me age is just a # some like and some dont

9/25/2011 11:49:40 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
kisikat
Aztec, NM
48, joined Mar. 2011


A few years younger is ok but when I have men email me who are 10 or more years younger.....well it could be flattering but I am done raising children.

9/25/2011 11:50:08 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
earlhodges84
Ellabell, GA
32, joined Sep. 2011


that is so true she was 43 and she sold my truck blow the motor up in my car than letf

9/25/2011 11:51:21 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
millyx22
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,252)
Suffolk, VA
27, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from earlhodges84:
i was 21 and was with a 43 year old to me age is just a # some like and some dont


It's not nice dating your mom Don't let friends find out about it you'll never hear the end of it.

9/25/2011 11:52:41 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
cschaeffer
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (22,077)
Jasper, IN
40, joined Apr. 2009


I date who makes me happy.

Numbers matter very little.... unless they are numbers that will send me to jail

9/25/2011 11:54:50 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
earlhodges84
Ellabell, GA
32, joined Sep. 2011


you got that right

its getting so bad might have to start asking to see some id

9/25/2011 11:57:40 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
syl39
Rialto, CA
44, joined Apr. 2011


i don't want a younger man because I am done having kids.

so if you want to start a family, look elsewhere.

my ex was younger and I am done with that. Always wanting toys, to be better than everyone else....immature.

9/26/2011 12:02:51 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
earlhodges84
Ellabell, GA
32, joined Sep. 2011


i hear you on that

9/26/2011 12:08:53 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
millyx22
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,252)
Suffolk, VA
27, joined Aug. 2011


When you start dating females/males your kids age it's starting to come off as a bit pedophile-ish and also dating someone who is old enough to be your mom or dad. It's just bad. I know if i was in my 40's and had me a daughter that just graduated highschool I wouldn't want them to date a man that's my age. Sicko. WTF?! Age matter to some degree.

9/26/2011 12:21:35 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
lynn7j
Victoria, TX
56, joined Jun. 2011


When you are 26 you may think 2 years younger is a lot. When you are in your 40's and up 2 years is nothing to think about.

I married a man 19 years older and it didn't work out. I always chose older (5-7 years) men but the last relationship the man was 7 years younger and guess what? It didn't work out.

9/26/2011 12:21:57 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
daegus
Over 2,000 Posts (3,937)
Los Angeles, CA
27, joined Aug. 2011


It's intimidating to be with a younger man, even if he's only a year or two or maybe even a couple of months.

Why would you want to be with someone my age when you could be with girls your own age?

9/26/2011 12:24:11 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
earlhodges84
Ellabell, GA
32, joined Sep. 2011


every one has to learn the hard i did now i try to stay around my age

9/26/2011 12:29:49 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
millyx22
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,252)
Suffolk, VA
27, joined Aug. 2011


Two years means something when you're 18 and 19 years old... You could go down for rape.

9/26/2011 12:38:22 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
earlhodges84
Ellabell, GA
32, joined Sep. 2011


yea if your 18 and 19 but if your in the 20s and older and your messing with 17 or a 16 than u need to get busted

9/26/2011 12:42:46 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
silent_grappler
Ogden, UT
26, joined Sep. 2011


Maybe this woman's parent's rules for dating.

9/26/2011 12:47:26 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
silent_grappler
Ogden, UT
26, joined Sep. 2011


and some guys are wrong about consider rape. My points are depends on state's law where you live in for dating ages and if a 20 years old man date to 22 years old women then it's good as "near my ages" but if she is 6 years older than him then you know it likely to lead to problems unless some people think age is just a number.

9/26/2011 12:49:40 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
julz4eva
Broomfield, CO
39, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from prettyboyv:
why do women that are older have a problem dating younger guys ?!? , I'm 24 I was talkin to a woman that was 26 , we couldn't take our relationship any further because she felt I was too young "/ ..


men are emotional behind women 2-3 years emotionally from puberty on (yes this is accurate info from a psychology book) so that means she is 6 years ahead of you. right now u want a** or maybe to date. she is starting to think kids and marriage. it takes a rare younger man to deal with all of that

9/26/2011 12:51:08 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
eightysixed
Santa Clarita, CA
34, joined Sep. 2011


awwi want kids.. should i seek an older woman ? lol

9/26/2011 2:13:41 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
prettyboyv
Howard Beach, NY
29, joined Jun. 2011


Thanks that's what I was thinking

9/26/2011 2:44:15 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
julz4eva
Broomfield, CO
39, joined Aug. 2011


yes then. find a lady who is a few years older

9/26/2011 2:53:20 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
millyx22
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,252)
Suffolk, VA
27, joined Aug. 2011


^^^are you really 35? like WTF???

9/26/2011 3:06:59 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
julz4eva
Broomfield, CO
39, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from millyx22:
^^^are you really 35? like WTF???


Yes lol.... Im holding up well



[Edited 9/26/2011 3:07:46 AM ]

9/26/2011 3:22:06 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

tonic451
Over 2,000 Posts (3,139)
Saint Marys, GA
33, joined Aug. 2011


@julz4eva

I wouldn't say women are ahead of men by 6 years. That's retarded and sexist at best. Most of what's in those psychology books is theory. Those theories change monthly, so most of it is not definite. I met my fair share of idiots that were both men and women in their teens. Ya could say most people are pretty stupid until they're in their mid 20's to 30's.



[Edited 9/26/2011 3:22:38 AM ]

9/26/2011 3:32:46 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
julz4eva
Broomfield, CO
39, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from tonic451:
@julz4eva

I wouldn't say women are ahead of men by 6 years. That's retarded and sexist at best. Most of what's in those psychology books is theory. Those theories change monthly, so most of it is not definite. I met my fair share of idiots that were both men and women in their teens. Ya could say most people are pretty stupid until they're in their mid 20's to 30's.


I agree that alot of younger people are not ready and they are waiting unitl later after college now to have children. But this data hasnt changed since before the 70's for emotional maturity in a relationship and the WANT to start to settle down. We also have a biological clock that works differently.

9/26/2011 3:44:38 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

tonic451
Over 2,000 Posts (3,139)
Saint Marys, GA
33, joined Aug. 2011


@julz4eva

I disagree with it. Like I said a lot of it is only theory. I wouldn't quote anything from that far back in psychology's history. Most of that old crap is outdated or found false. I've known a lot of women that didn't want to settle down that young. Women are wired to have kids early because technically that's the best time for their bodies to have kids. It's a instinctual drive. I wouldn't say that's emotional maturity.

9/26/2011 3:49:31 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
daniel8673
Over 1,000 Posts (1,161)
Shelby, NC
30, joined Jul. 2011


Quote from millyx22:
wait you're 24 and the girl is 26. Just a 2 year difference and she's telling you you're too young WTF??!!! That girl just wasn't into you and used age as a excuse to move on to the next guy.


exactly.....she was also calling you immature lol

9/26/2011 4:18:44 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
plainmaria30
San Mateo, CA
35, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from peteycal:
Either this girl has some really bad OCD and can't date a guy 2 years younger, or the most likely case is it was just an excuse to get rid of you.[/quot

ive used that excuse before lol

9/26/2011 4:26:56 AMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

alphabetsamson
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,023)
Santa Ana, CA
51, joined Nov. 2010


They don't and you know it!! Haven't you ever heard of Cougar's?

Where have you been, in a cave??!!

9/26/2011 1:09:37 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
julz4eva
Broomfield, CO
39, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from tonic451:
@julz4eva

I disagree with it. Like I said a lot of it is only theory. I wouldn't quote anything from that far back in psychology's history. Most of that old crap is outdated or found false. I've known a lot of women that didn't want to settle down that young. Women are wired to have kids early because technically that's the best time for their bodies to have kids. It's a instinctual drive. I wouldn't say that's emotional maturity.


like i said biological clock.....and that study has been redone about 15 times since the 70's....same results. that is why i said it hasnt changed since then.

9/26/2011 1:10:55 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
julz4eva
Broomfield, CO
39, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from alphabetsamson:
They don't and you know it!! Haven't you ever heard of Cougar's?

Where have you been, in a cave??!!



Ah yes the use of boy toys.....not meant for a serious relationship though. that is used for the female version of a trophy wife. only eye candy!

9/26/2011 1:59:06 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
purdibird
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,164)
Nice
France
79, joined Aug. 2010


it's probably a "number" thing for me.


I also think it creepy for a 60yr old man wanting to date a 20 something girl.

9/26/2011 4:11:36 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

matika
Orlando, FL
55, joined May. 2008


Nothing wrong with that. I believe she was just not into you. 2 yrs. ago i was in a relationship with a guy 9 yrs. younger and we had a great romantic relationship.

9/26/2011 4:12:42 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
tjir1l
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (15,666)
Jacksonville Beach, FL
61, joined Feb. 2011


young guys just don't have minds, other than being good for sex they are useless

9/26/2011 4:18:01 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

jeh7012
Dendron, VA
34, joined Jul. 2011


My preference for the most part is older men. Not OLD men, just men a few years older than me. I like men with experience and are accomplished in life. I like men who are mature and know what they want. I won't say I wouldn't date a younger guy, just prefer older.

9/26/2011 4:20:05 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
peteycal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,506)
Santa Rosa, CA
31, joined Sep. 2011


Women who are financially secure, generally go for younger guys. Women are are not financially secure, generally go for older guys. Women with OCD, generally go for guys their own age.

Again this is in general.

9/26/2011 4:24:21 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
ex_klu_siv
Over 1,000 Posts (1,434)
Florence, AL
27, joined Sep. 2011


She probably lives in some fantasy land fairy tale like most females and has her whole little story made up...and you being younger is not in the equation....

or as said before its just an excuse..

chalk it up and move on simple as that

9/26/2011 4:27:20 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
blkfatbeauty
Essex Fells, NJ
39, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from tjir1l:
young guys just don't have minds, other than being good for sex they are useless


9/26/2011 4:31:43 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

jeh7012
Dendron, VA
34, joined Jul. 2011


Quote from peteycal:
Women who are financially secure, generally go for younger guys. Women are are not financially secure, generally go for older guys. Women with OCD, generally go for guys their own age.
Again this is in general.



Do you have evidence of this? Stats actually show that girls prefer men 3-4 yrs older.

9/26/2011 4:33:40 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
peteycal
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (13,506)
Santa Rosa, CA
31, joined Sep. 2011


Do you have evidence of this? Stats actually show that girls prefer men 3-4 yrs older.

Just from personal experience. The older women that hit on me usually are financially set, and the younger women that hit on me usually want me to take care of them.

9/26/2011 4:36:04 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
ex_klu_siv
Over 1,000 Posts (1,434)
Florence, AL
27, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from peteycal:
Do you have evidence of this? Stats actually show that girls prefer men 3-4 yrs older.

Just from personal experience. The older women that hit on me usually are financially set, and the younger women that hit on me usually want me to take care of them.



Gonna have to agree with this.

A woman that is independent only needs a man for one of two things....simply sex...or sperm.

9/26/2011 4:39:26 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
tater79
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (29,647)
Springfield, IL
37, joined Jun. 2008


Quote from ex_klu_siv:
Gonna have to agree with this.

A woman that is independent only needs a man for one of two things....simply sex...or sperm.


I'll let you pick me for both......deal?? good.......be here at 6pm....thanks in advance

9/26/2011 4:41:02 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 
ex_klu_siv
Over 1,000 Posts (1,434)
Florence, AL
27, joined Sep. 2011


Quote from tater79:
I'll let you pick me for both......deal?? good.......be here at 6pm....thanks in advance


Never ending rain check? Thanks in Advance

9/26/2011 4:42:19 PMWhy do woman have a problem dating younger guys?!? 

jeh7012
Dendron, VA
34, joined Jul. 2011


Just stating the stats. Your personal opinion and the correlation is two different things. I only speak of what the evidence has been proven.