It’s not a secret that many older men find younger women to be more desirable due to both, the physical appeal of a girl in her twenties and because being around a young woman makes them feel younger themselves and makes them feel like they still “got it”. At the same time, there are several reasons why a younger guy might enjoy dating older women, and why that experience might be in at least some ways far more enjoyable than dating girls who are still in college or who just got out of college:
1. Dating Older Women Tend to Be More Interesting.
The more mature woman is likely to have had more interesting life experiences, which in turn made her a more interesting person – a more stimulating company with interesting views and opinions. Her personality is likely to be more developed and more stable, which might make any interaction with her easier and more fun than with a younger woman who is shy and who has a number of other hang-ups about men. Although of course older doesn’t mean automatically smarter and more interesting, one would hope that most of us become wiser and otherwise more mentally attractive as we gain life experience with passing years, which is a combination of meeting and knowing how to interact with different men, lessons from past relationships and an ability to appreciate what those women used to take for granted.
2. Dating Older Women Is More Fun Because They Are Usually More Open Minded
As a general rule, older women are more open minded. They can take a dirty joke, or criticism and dish tough love of their own. They don’t get offended as easily as the younger women do. The more mature women are entertained by sarcasm and other kinds of dark humor rather than being intimidated or offended by it, which makes talking to them all the more enjoyable. You will not have to walk on eggshells when talking to an older woman as it takes much more to offend her than a girl who is in her late teens or early twenties.
3. An Older Woman Is Less Likely to Pressure You Into a Relationship
An older woman, especially the one who has been married before and/or who has children, has already had everything a younger woman dreams about having. She realizes how many misconceptions younger women have about meeting Mr. Right and what that perfect guy should be. The older woman is much less likely to pressure you to settle down with her and have a long term relationship, in part because she wants to take things slowly and not be rushed into anything after being married and living with a guy for a long time. She might just be enjoying her newly discovered single life. If you are not ready to settle down, and you are put off by women’s pressure to determine exactly where you stand with them shortly after you start seeing them, you might find dating an older woman to be easier and more fun because you are unlikely to experience that pressure.
4. Older Women Are Likely To Be Better Sex Partners
It’s not a secret that women’s sex drives significantly increases from their thirties forward. That, coupled with confidence and comfort with oneself which comes to women with age is likely to make a more mature woman a more open and passionate sex partner – someone who is proud of her desires rather than ashamed of them, like some of the younger and the less experienced women are out there who are still searching for who they are and who they ought to be.
If you can think of any other advantages to dating an older woman, please comment below, and I will consider adding your thoughts to this article to make it more useful and comprehensive.