I’m dating my cousin

I'm dating my cousin

I’m dating my cousin

I’ve never been happier

But no one sees past the first part….

111 Comments on “I’m dating my cousin

  1.  by  Fire Girl

    Hi everyone . this is very embarassing . I have some Comfort in reading everyone story. i just recently met my first cousin , I’ve never met him before last week . my Family is very dysfuctional theres people who are alcoholics, Drug addicts. I mean my oldest sister is a herion addict, i didn’t see much of my mother side of the family growing up. both my parents have six siblings each . my first cousin on my mom side . his biological mother is my aunt. i’ve met her a hand ful of times , i don’t even remember. she couldn’t take care of her 4 kids. for all i know two of them were put up for adoption , the ones i know now. lets call them (Lissa, and Jerome ) well she is still in contact with our family , i guess maybe never really lost in touch after being adopted as a kid, she has three kids. Jerome , i believe has 2 boys .idk hes single. well i met him for the first time last week for a family funeral . we hit it off pretty well . my family . my mom and Lissa and him and i were joking over cards , on who is getting the D . His. but now that hes gone and he text me. and he seems real serious on having something with me. to everyone else he was joking and that nothing will happen. but what if i allow it? what If i allow myself to like him romantically. my family is already messed up enough. one sister is addict, the only is being abused by her baby’s daddy. what next me , dating my first cousin. that is not normal in our society . i care way to much on how others see me.
    he tells me he loves me, and he says he really likes me and i can trust him and he wont hurt me. after i told him i cant trust no one. i keep telling myself its for sex . or he is some perve. like , he didn’t hesitate about it. like it seems normal for him to go after relatives? haha . to me , it has nothing to do with religion . its what others think of me. seeing all of you fighting against your feelings for your first cousin, second cousin. i didn’t even know him til recently . we were friends on facebook for a year never spoke a word. and when he came up . BOOM! here comes trouble. i have trouble being vulnurable to other guys that arent related to me . add cousin to the mix . how am i suppose to handle intimacy with a cousin . ?? i always wanted my parents approval. I’ve never felt good enough , so how will they see me now? another mistake? will they say what did they do wrong to have three daughters who are messed up in the head.
    then its about .. i know its early. but what about children? I mean what if i got pregnant ? will my child have mental problems? i have a learning disability myself. so i don’t want my child to face the same issues. I want my child to be intelligent , i want my child to feel normal. i want children . i’m 22 and my cousin is 28 . a year older than my oldest sister. so that is awkward. but i guess my sisters have something else to use on me. say something like atleast we’re not a perve . you can’t find a boyfriend that isn’t in the same bloodline? god i don’t want to be judged. what am i suppose to do? i need advice . i need someone to tell me they had children and they turn out find , that my feelings are okay. its not like i knew him. i would never date my cousins on my dad side. i knew them all my life . and i just never would .
    its a bad example. but amish / polygamy people are married off to a cousin. besides the without their concent part. their children come out normal ,.. for what i know .

  2.  by  Mike

    Hi there.
    Interesting story, i have to say that having a relationship with one of your cousins is totally normal and you shouldnt feel bad about it, i understand you were not close to him for so many years. So its normal to feel some closure towards him. As he feels towards you. I went through the same situation and still going , i met my female cousin about 5 to 6 years ago, i came to usa when i was a kid, leaving all my famlily back in my country . When i met her , i think we had this connection right away. It wasnt until 2 years later that we had kissed, we decide to have a relationship, i get to see her every 6 months hoping we can be together some day, my feeling for her are stronger everyday. And i understand you say your family have issues and that by adding a cousin relationship would make you indifferent , but to be honest noo, it makes you normal, humans have feelings and need love, no matter the person, another thing is the family, they might not approve of it , but what matters is that you and him love each other. When it comes to children , people always picture that their kids might be born with problems , but in reality the chances are 1% that it could happen. And please dont let others make you feel bad about this , people are ignorant and self righteous, they do what their cultures and religions tells them , which is wrong, your your own person with different feelings and ideals. Be strong and always fight for what you love and believe.
    Ps: ive had this relationship with her for so long now, some of my family nows about it and they are fine with it, but her parents dont seem to be fine with it. But hey i dont care nor she. I got to spend new years with her, went out , made out , it was really nice. Its just a matter of time and sacrifice. Good luck and let me know how it goes 😉

  3.  by  maybelle

    I sleep with my cousin who is my fathers cousin too I sleep with him because he wanted but I dislike his too small penis he is ugly too I lied to him I got orgams which is not true I want to stop lying

  4.  by  Itsok

    I recently had sex with my cousin, I mean her father is my uncle, we never really had any contact with her since she lived with her mom. Now we did talk about it but passion kind of took over. It’s now been a few days and I don’t know how to feel, sad, scared, happy or what? I haven’t talked to anyone about it and I wouldn’t know to whom.

    What am I supposed to do? :-/

  5.  by  i'm none

    i don’t know why i’m posting that and why i would everyone to know about that!!
    i can’t imagine how mylife will be horrible if my family read that but okay , i won’t be calm anymore!
    i fell in love with my cousin and i didn’t think of telling him the truth!!but he knew, it’s one sided love , and that really hurts!!
    i can’t speak with him or even meet him and as he said we’re cousins and 15 miles far away from each other!! i hope that you get that!!
    simply everything is bad!! nothing will be alright!!
    i’m suffering every single day in my life , i’m feeling pain, he doesn’t even abswer my messages!! he’s really selfish , he doesn’t care about me and i must stop loving him soon but i can’t !!
    i can’t sleep without thinking of him , i can’t stop dreaming of him!! i want to tell him that i can’t live anymore like that, i want to tell him to stay by myside , to come and see me, to talk with me but i can’t!! or i musn’t!!
    hell , it’s hell”!!
    i hate my life!!

  6.  by  Taylor

    I am a lesbian and in love with my first cousin Madison.I known her since I was 1 second old and I realized I love loved her. I am still a kid but me my mom my dad and Madison are going to Vegas at Mandalay Bay and me and her share a bed.I am scared if I kiss her.Also if I accidentally see her in the shower.I also LOVE her personality!HELP PLEASE!!!!!!????????????

  7.  by  MarkQ

    I met my first cousin for the 1st time at my grandmothers funeral…..never new he existed until then crazy thing is I noticed him from the moment we met and he noticed me too… being nice we exchanged numbers saying we’d keep in touch but conversation changed…we didn’t feel like cousins….we planned to meet up but I got scared so we rescheduled and spent the next weekend together which changed my life….. I feel head over hills in love and we’ve been a couple since now it’s only been 4 months I don’t see him as my cousin…..my half cousin at that….we share a grandma not both but he’s the love of my life

  8.  by  Davos

    I seen my cousin yesterday, and when she seen me she gave me a tight close hug (real close) we were breathing real hard and nervous, I heard her and she heard me and then we had to let go before it seemed weird in front of family. Every time I see her which is not a lot I feel the desire for her is getting stronger and stronger but we never had a conversation about how we feel but I know i want her and I think she wants me because she always on me and I’m always on her such as hugging on each when we talk, yesterday when we talking and she put her arms around my back and I had my arm around her my body couldn’t take I was on hard and she felt and didn’t say nothing but stayed on me and it kept happening like every time she come to talk to me she holds me when she talk and this is when we are around family. I don’t think we should be by ourselves but she want to come over and start working out with me what should I do I can’t control myself I love her and I want her.

  9.  by  Brynne

    I too feel you complertely. I know this is old but I just found it while looking for info on this. Seems no one will attempt to understand or see above anything else that I.m genuinely happy. Its a love like no other, the fact that he has someone else and probably someone else too..but its to provide a cover for what we do. We spend lots of time together, get intimate in ways I’ve only seen on porn. We didn’t grow up together either, met as adults and have been inseparable ever since. This secret brings lonliness, jealousy, anger and lots of making up….its exhausting but I wouldn’t trade him for anything.I’ve come to just live by a saying from a movie..”If it feels good, Do It. Others opinions don’t matter..

  10.  by  Dawn

    I met someone who is a cousin by adoption. I met him a month ago. Anyway his grandfather was adopted from Italy by my great uncle, so there is no blood relation. I feel like I’m falling for this young man and I’m not sure if he even knows about this connection. I don’t know how I would bring it up or what his reaction might be. I’m worried about how our families would react. We live in a city where everyone seems to know each other, so the truth may come out in a matter of time. Is this socially acceptable by society? Help

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